OCD can bring feelings of anxiety or shame into many areas of your life, but there are also ways to reduce those feelings.

If you’ve received an obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) diagnosis, chances are you’re feeling uncertain. But you’re not alone.

OCD doesn’t always look the same from person to person. But it can take some common forms, including:

worries of contamination leading to excessive cleaning
feeling like items need to be symmetrical or ordered in a certain way
experiencing impulsive, forbidden, taboo thoughts
a desire to hoard and retain items

“It’s important to remember there are different types of OCD, and not everyone experiences it the same way,” says Dr. Sanam Hafeez, neuropsychologist and faculty member at Columbia University.

While the condition can be challenging, there is hope. Various treatments are available, and many people see fewer symptoms following either one or a combination of these.

What does OCD feel like?

No matter how your OCD manifests, the symptoms (compulsions and obsessions) tend to be intrusive and dominating. It can be difficult to push them aside to focus on anything else, even if you’re aware they’re unfounded.

It can be almost impossible to quash the need to perform a particular action – including washing your hands or arranging items — as the desire to do so “just once more” becomes irresistible.

You may feel helpless and out of control, which can be overwhelming, upsetting, and disheartening. It can also be difficult to envision a future without these thoughts and compulsions dominating your daily life.

In the long term, living with OCD can be tiring — especially if you’re trying to hide it from family, friends, and coworkers — and frustrating if it prevents you from partaking in and enjoying everyday activities.

For some, the anxiety and upset can snowball into panic attacks.

How OCD affects your life

OCD can be unpredictable and all-consuming, meaning symptoms “can interfere with day-to-day activities, such as work or school,” according to Hafeez. So what are the main aspects of life OCD can affect?

Work

We all find it hard to focus at times. But OCD can amplify this, causing productivity rates to drop and making the simplest of tasks far more challenging.

You may feel heightened anxiety at being unable to carry out safety behaviors (like handwashing) as frequently or worry about what colleagues will think if they catch you engaging in them. In severe cases, fears and compulsions can prevent you from leaving the house to go to work.

Relationships

Loved ones might have trouble comprehending your OCD, be unsure how to react to your compulsions, or feel pressured to offer reassurance.

Another challenge can arise, notes Hafeez, since “some people with OCD may excessively worry about the safety of their loved ones, [and] therefore demand their friends/family to do things a certain way.” All these factors can strain relationships.

Some people experience relationship OCD (ROCD) when their symptoms are focused primarily on relationships.

Parenting

Children need a lot of attention, and persistent OCD thoughts or compulsions can make it even harder to give them your full focus.

You may feel unable to interact with your child in ways you would like, such as sitting on the floor to play, which can be distressing. Or you might exhibit extreme safety behaviors due to anxiety, like refusing to let them ride a bike in case they get hurt, that could impact their development and enjoyment.

School

Like adults, it can be difficult for children and young adults with OCD to concentrate when intrusive thoughts arise. “If someone experiences fear of not doing something perfectly, they may have trouble finishing assignments,” notes Hafeez.

You might also fear that certain classes, such as painting or sports, will cause you to become contaminated or dirty.

Hobbies

In addition to causing disruption, it might feel like OCD stops you from engaging in hobbies altogether.

Fear of being marked by the wool’s dye might prevent you from knitting, for example, or you may worry that battling in video games will cause loved ones harm in real life. Either way, feeling you can no longer partake in activities that bring joy can be upsetting.

Socializing

OCD can make socializing difficult and tiring. Anxious thoughts might prevent you from enjoying yourself. You might fear becoming contaminated by someone else’s actions or worry you’ll accidentally cause someone harm while with them.

Plus, being unable to switch off from compulsive behaviors could mean you’re often late to events or miss them altogether.

OCD can occur alongside other mental health conditions, which, like OCD itself, can vary when it comes to how intense symptoms are.

Depression

According to a 2021 research review, anywhere from 19% to just under 67% of young adults with OCD also have depression. If you live with both OCD and depression, you might be more likely to experience symptoms like guilt and difficulty concentrating.

Some research suggests that depression symptoms don’t always go away with OCD treatment alone, so someone with both might need care for depression in addition to the support they receive for OCD.

Hoarding

“Hoarding, or the compulsive desire to keep stuff, is a way for those with OCD to manage their intrusive thoughts,” explains Hafeez. People who live with OCD and who hoard can also start to feel anxious about inviting others into their home and may become isolated.

Substance use disorder

According to a 2022 Swedish study, those with OCD have almost a four-fold risk of substance misuse. The study authors note that shared genetic factors across both OCD and substance misuse might explain the link.

Trichotillomania

“Those with trichotillomania may pull hair from eyebrows, scalp, genital area, or beard/mustache,” Hafeez says. While some people with OCD have a lot of trouble resisting compulsions around this, others do so in an attempt to manage their thoughts and anxieties.

Excoriation

Excoriation involves regularly picking at the skin until it bleeds, and those with OCD usually use it to help relieve stress or upset. As with OCD, the compulsions to do this are often unstoppable, even if you know it’s causing pain and harm.

Tic disorders

Tic disorders have a high rate of co-occurring with OCD. For some, compulsive thoughts may cause you to do a tic until it’s completed “correctly,” while others believe not doing them will lead to something terrible.

Getting the right help for OCD

Medical professionals use a variety of medications and therapies to reduce signs and symptoms of OCD.

“Medications, such as antidepressants, can increase the amount of serotonin in the brain, and increased levels of serotonin can help alleviate OCD symptoms,” shares Hafeez. Research suggests around 7 in 10 people with OCD experience symptom relief by taking the right medication for them.

Medications approved by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) include:

fluoxetine (Prozac)
sertraline (Zoloft)
paroxetine (Paxil)

Psychotherapies like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) offer similar rates of success, and “exposure and response prevention (ERP) therapy can also help those with OCD by exposing them to their fears and helping them learn ways to resist their compulsions,” Hafeez says.

It can be a good idea to search for a therapist experienced in treating OCD and working with CBT or ERP. You don’t need to be afraid to ask questions about their approaches. The International OCD Foundation offers a list of qualified professionals who can help.

Self-care tips and home remedies

If OCD causes your mind to continually be filled with anxious thoughts, it can be exhausting. Taking extra steps to maintain your well-being can be helpful.

Movement

We know regular exercise is beneficial for overall mental well-being, but there’s even more reason to get involved. Research has found OCD symptoms and levels of anxiety and depression are lower after engaging in aerobic activities. Practicing yoga could be beneficial, too.

Mindfulness

Although it can be challenging for those with OCD to calm their brain, mindfulness-based therapy can aid in managing and letting go of compulsive thoughts.

You can read more about how mindfulness can help with OCD here.

Sleep

Getting a good night’s rest is also important, as later bedtimes are linked to perceived difficulty managing both obsessions and compulsions.

Workbooks

Finally, there are workbooks available that you can complete at your own pace, with “The OCD Workbook: Your Guide to Breaking Free from OCD” and “The Mindfulness Workbook for OCD.” Therapists and people with OCD alike highly recommend them.

What’s next?

You can work with your doctor or therapist to create a treatment program tailored to your symptoms. Simply knowing you have plans in place can offer relief.

You could also connect with an online support group to speak with others experiencing OCD:

The International OCD Foundation lists U.S.-based groups.
OCD-UK hosts a large support forum.
Friends With OCD is a popular private Facebook group.

While you might feel overwhelmed and isolated, it’s important to not be hard on yourself and recognize that help is available. Although OCD isn’t likely to resolve completely, many find it manageable.

Your life doesn’t have to be dominated by intrusive thoughts and compulsions. Finding and applying the right approaches to meet your needs could help.

Chantelle Pattemore is a writer and editor based in London, UK. She focuses on health, lifestyle, beauty, food, and fitness.

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