11 self-care tips so good our therapists follow them too

During a stressful time, have you ever had someone tell you to “take it easy?” Ugh. If only it were that simple, right? Taking care of ourselves — and learning healthy ways to do so — is a skill that doesn’t come easy for a lot of us. In fact, it can take quite a bit of effort and attention. That’s why there are so many industries focused on helping people practice self-care.

As a therapist, I find that my colleagues and I are especially susceptible to burnout. It can be hard to unwind at the end of an emotionally challenging day. So, what do therapists do to nurture our minds and our bodies? Below, the most popular ways we prioritize our needs.

How therapists practice self-care

Here’s what works for us. By sharing this list, we hope you’ll be inspired to tend to yourself today — and every day.

We practice mindfulness
This likely comes as no surprise, but mindfulness helps … a lot. If you’re looking to start a meditation practice, you can explore exercises in our mindfulness and meditation library.

We say “no”
If you often find yourself overbooked or with little time for self-care, practice saying, “No, thanks” in the mirror or with a trusted person. Therapists recognize the importance of setting boundaries Opens in a new window. We know it’s okay to turn down plans in order to take care of ourselves.

We limit social media
Social media can help us feel connected to others. But it can also be a source of stress. (Doomscrollers, raise your hand). To strike a balance, many of us therapists take a mindful approach. We pay attention to how social media affects us. And then we set appropriate limits. For some, that means deleting the app from their phones and just using the desktop version. For others, setting a social media timer has been helpful.

We use time off … for time off!
As a society, we’re so hyper-focused on productivity that this mindset can spill over into our vacation time. (I know I’m personally guilty of using non-work hours to create to-do lists!) But going non-stop will just lead to stress and burnout. So the next time you take a day off from work, try to refrain from filling it up with tasks. It’s okay to take time off and just truly rest. Free time may feel scary at first, but you’ll be taking a big step in learning to let yourself relax.

We listen to music
A 2018 review of studies found that creating, singing to or listening to music can help reduce feelings of anxiety, worry, nervousness and restlessness. And study participants only needed one session to reap the benefits. So take a page from us therapists and turn on your favorite tunes. Bonus points if they fall within 60 to 80 beats per minute. In the study, music at this tempo helped to reduce stress more than music at other or unspecified speeds.

We head outside
Spending time in “green spaces” — parks, forests, urban woodlands — can help lower fatigue, anger and tension, compared to spending time in non-green spaces, finds an analysis of 24 studies. It’s also linked to more positivity and energy. Best of all, those good vibes can start flowing in as little as 15 minutes. So the next time you’re feeling low, take a short walk in nature. It just might help you feel more grounded.

We practice yoga or mindful movement
Yoga can help reduce stress. So it’s probably no surprise that many therapists are budding yogis. But don’t worry, you don’t have to become an overnight athlete to benefit. We find that even doing a few calming stretches Opens in a new window throughout the day can help.

We reach out to others
Social support can help us talk through stress and anxiety. When you’re struggling to relax, try reaching out to someone you trust.

We read
Pick up a book that sounds fun to read. Avoid ones that you feel you “should” read. If you don’t know where to start, browse the bestseller lists. Or go to the library and talk to a librarian. Want to read more and reap the benefits of community? Join an in-person or virtual book club to make new connections.

We talk to ourselves
Umm, should you be worried?! Not at all. We often help clients, and ourselves, relax by reframing thoughts to be more helpful. Learning how to do this can take a bit of practice. This simple framework Opens in a new window can help.

We find support
Yes, even therapists have therapists! If you find yourself struggling to relax, working with a therapist can help you better understand and cope with chronic stress.

Find what works for you

If there are things on our list that don’t feel right for you, that’s okay. Self-care isn’t a “one-size-fits-all” approach. Create a list of practices that work best for you.

As you try different activities, check in with yourself. Ask, “How do I feel?” Assess whether that activity belongs on your list going forward. If you feel calmer and more relaxed, make it part of your routine. And remember, feeling better doesn’t happen overnight. But taking small steps in the right direction can make a big difference.

Sources

de Witte M, Spruit A, van Hooren S, Moonen X, Stams GJ. Effects of music interventions on stress-related outcomes: a systematic review and two meta-analyses Opens in a new window. Health Psychol Rev. 2020;14(2):294-324.

Song S, Tu R, Lu Y, Yin S, Lin H, Xiao Y. Restorative Effects from Green Exposure: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis of Randomized Control Trials. Opens in a new window Int J Environ Res Public Health. 2022;19(21):14506. Published 2022 Nov 4.

Khajuria A, Kumar A, Joshi D, Kumaran SS. Reducing Stress with Yoga: A Systematic Review Based on Multimodal Biosignals Opens in a new window. Int J Yoga. 2023;16(3):156-170.

Last updated: July 29, 2025

By: Clare Jordan, LPCC, NCC